Confidence brings it all together!

We have to admit, for us The Devil Wear Prada is in the Top Ten Movies of all time. Andy showed up to an interview “prepared”, or so she thought. She had the intellect, drive and determination to make it at one of the premier fashion magazine companies. She fought her way through a monologue of why she was the perfect candidate and eventually got the job. Andy struggled at the start, not knowing the industry or the top leaders in the company. Everyday she got more discouraged, her esteem seemed to lessen and she almost gave up. One day she got a pep talk from Nigel and an upgrade in the confidence department. She performed better and contributed more at work.  

There are many people who are talented and skillful. Where you are on the confidence scale can be deciphered just by interactions. The people who we most admire have that “it” factor, the glue that brings all of their intellect, common sense and know-how together. They own their presence and it sets them apart. Although, it is possible to have confidence with no skill or talent, but that combination is not much to be desired.

Let’s look at some things that can build confidence:

1. The more you know about the company, your industry and the way things work can only prepare you to speak on a variety of subjects and do your job better
2. An upgrade in the style department never hurt. When Andy felt better she did better. Nails, hair and clothing being maintained is important and you should do what makes you feel good and sure about yourself
3. Surround yourself with people who are positive and encouraging. It doesn’t help when some of the people you spend time with are negative or try to hold you back 
4. Take care of your mental health – Self-care is essential to you being a whole and healthy person. When you address issues that may create blockages for your progression in life, you are making room for greater self-esteem
5. Challenges build confidence. Educating and testing yourself through training, projects and/or new experiences, assist in increasing your confidence. There is just something about accomplishing a goal or milestone you may have been afraid of or thought you could not do, but you did

Your confidence is personal and branded by you, the individual. The core work you do on yourself can only breed a stronger person. So, what things are you doing to work on your confidence in 2020? Success is waiting!